F*ck faking it, Get real this year....

One of the hardest things in business is knowing who to pretend to be….

If your in business then your probably know exactly what I am talking about. You put on this face of who you think people want to see, you uphold yourself to walk, talk and look a way that projects what you believe a successful person would be like to others.


Because of this you find an emptiness inside a part of you that feels fake, a part of you that doesn't know how long it can keep this façade up for, a part of you that longs for real connection.


You find that because of this you are attracting shitty clients, clients you can’t relate to, clients who don’t show up or show up late, clients who jump from salon to salon or discount to discount and they just don’t seem to have much respect for you or your business.


Its exhausting! you start to wonder why both, is it even worth it, what are you doing wrong & you feel the urge growing stronger and stronger to really just give up.


I know this from experience… its hard to keep up the façade but it’s absolutely fucking petrifying to put your real self out there. The fear of: what if people don't like me? What if i get no likes or comments or even worse omg what if I get trolled.


Your BEST clients are waiting to find you behind all the smoke and mirrors your projecting, you best clients are waiting to meet the real you!

The amazing, funny, classy, geeky, weird, strange, beachy, bogan, genius, talented relatable imperfectly perfect, genuine you.


I know this from experience… its hard to keep up the façade but it’s absolutely fucking petrifying to put your real self out there. The fear of: what if people don't like me? What if I get no likes or comments or even worse omg what if I get trolled.

Ek its so scary girl I know & truth be told all of those things at some stage will probably happen, Not everyone in the entire world is going to like you or be able to relate to you & that’s ok.


See the magic happens when you start being yourself, you will start attracting better clients, clients you can laugh with, clients you can relate to, clients who make you happy, who you look forward to seeing & most of clients who love you for you.


When you stop pretending you will feel free to do, say & be exactly who you are. Your vibes will be high and your calendar will be jammed packed full with people who are on time, always at their appointments, who have nothing but loyalty & total respect for you, your team and your business.


To make this happen never underestimate the power of your socials, Keep in mind that every single Facebook & Instagram story has the potential to reach even one person & turn them into a new client, this client could be someone who stays with you for life…


So wherever you are and whatever your doing just make sure to be you…


Post a photo & or comment below and tell me something about your true self...


Chelsea Valentino



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